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    Default Forgive and Forget?

    Have you ever heard the phrase "forgive and forget"?


    If someone does something wrong to you do you.....

    Forgive them?
    Forgive them and forget about it?
    Just forget about it?
    Neither?


    I tend to forgive but never forget. I find it hard to just forget about something after its happened.

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    well i tend to forget even if i dont forgive...
    so it feels like i dont have any quarells :3
    and sometimes i dont really care :3
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    I wont forgive and forget...but I will act in front of him/her as if nothing really happened at all.

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    Sometimes I forgive but not forget and sometimes forget but not forgive. It depends on what the person did to you. If you're hurt a lot its kinda hard thing. >.> Maybe it depends on how kind you are. Maybe the person who did something bad to you already realized the bad thing he did. It takes time. Anyways, Wounds would heal by time and you'll totally forget everything and be ready to forgive. Just don't make your heart a stone. =_=
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    Hmm. I really must likely forgive but never forget. :)))))))) Though I've already the person, I'll always remember that certain thing (s)he did to me. And to learn a lesson from it.

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    Forgive then forget not to forget what happened but forget the bad things that had happened to you start again in the beginning
    Hope that help :)

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    I've heard about this fer like a million times xD

    I tend to forgive(I think) but definitely can't forget situations that has a deep impact on my life, be it good or bad.

    So I'm more like a person who forgives but not forget c:

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    forgive... forget... either will do for me XD
    don't care what others do to me... unless my life is threatened...
    but faults against someone dear to me i won't forgive... O:<

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    Forgive and forget?
    I'll just forgive but not forget.
    Especially if its something that made a change in my life :D

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    i never forgive and forget. coz if its always happening like this.
    the person tends to abuse your kindness or generosity. :D

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    forgive and forget.
    well its kinda hard to explain. but that's my point of view in life.

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    I usually forgive and forget... thinking about it won't do me any good so I usually forget about it

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    It depends on how severe it is but I'll normally forgive and forget... if it was something that really hurt me I'll usually never forget though.
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    Hmmm

    Completely Situational

    Depending on the degree of the crime committed against me will determine what I do.

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    I interpret forgive and forget as a way to free one's self from the burden of holding a grudge. I truly is about freedom and cleansing unnecessary weights from what's over and gone in the past. Learn from it, don't relive it.
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    Forgiving is always difficult but nothing good comes out of holding grudges. On should always forgive but one does not necessarily forget. Always learn from the situation of which you are either the forgiving or the forgiven and pray these dont happen again. Forgetting depends on the person

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    I forgave her because i can't remember what exactly she did. Maybe that's not real forgiveness but what i do know is that i love her properly nao and i didn't before. We're best friends so i guess that means she forgives me and i forgive her? That's good enough for nao, as long as we love each other.

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    Forgiving is really hard most especially if you where really hurt... And so is forgetting... But one can say that someone can forgive but not truly forget for as long as it was engrave in your memories (most especially if it really is hurtful).
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    I forgive but never forget.

    Sometimes It's a good thing for me to remember that certain issue between us because I can learn something important from it.

    But If It's just a nonsense quarrel then, forget and forget :)))

    The fact that the quarrel itself is not even worth forgiving, I forget it completely like nothing happend XD

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    I tend to be a very forgiving person, so in most cases for me it's forgive and usually forget. Unless, of course, I really hate the person, in which case I'll try to make their life just a little more hellish.
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