which is more painful???

[aishe7chrome]

i just wanna know which is more painful

is it when your bestfriend tells in front of you " i hate you since first"
or "i dont need you since we met"

o_____0 ???

[benito18]

hmmm...I hate you since first is more painful because you thought that he/she likes you but in the end he/she confess that hates you at first.

[DarkDenizen]

"I hate you since first"
its more painful because he/she was a plastic....
He/she pretended that he/she had good vibes in you....

[Revelix]

I don't need you since we met...
i would feel that i was just a person that you could play around with and throw away when it doesn't fit you.

[rhevil96]

i don't need you since we meet, . . . . . ,


, . . . . ,it just really hurts hearing such words, . . . . . ., from the person you love,

[aishe7chrome]

I don't need you since we met...
i would feel that i was just a person that you could play around with and throw away when it doesn't fit you.

hmmmm this quote makes my heart cries u_____u

[aishe7chrome]

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

[DarkDenizen]

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

Nope, and I will never try it ^w^

[aishe7chrome]

Nope, and I will never try it ^w^

oniisan deni =) see first my first quote

[DarkDenizen]

okay ^w^

[aishe7chrome]

okay ^w^

wooopsie sue me massen deni i didnt notice your first quote xD sorry sorry oniisan thanks for the quote ^___^

[DarkDenizen]

its ok Imouto-chan ^w^

[error345]

i just wanna know which is more painful

is it when your bestfriend tells in front of you " i hate you since first"
or "i dont need you since we met"

o_____0 ???

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

-add your question to the thread start post because i doubt everyone will scroll down to see that.

Well both of those are equally hurtful to me once i care about this person. It's obvious the person is hurt and is trying to hurt you, because he/she wouldn't have been your best friend is that were true from the start. Find out whats wrong and fix it before it's too late.

[KiriHime]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

[eriel529]

i would say i hate you since first is more painful 'cuz you thought that person liked you and them it turns out she/he doesn't

[aishe7chrome]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be condole??

[aishe7chrome]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be involve by something bad??

[Bunislipper]

The first one is worse because well you thought they were your friend and turns out they were false and lied to your face constantly. I've had this happen before. It's not pretty.

[Death Master]

"i don't need you since we met" For me this one is hurtful but the those two choices are both hurtful.
Example: Before he/she told that to me/you is that me/you did anything for your best friend and me/you loved doing those things, helping him/her. And after all you did your gonna hear it from him/her that "i don't need you since we met". It's painful really... But for the first choice it will just make me snap out of chaos. Grrrrr!!!

[KiriHime]

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be involve by something bad??

Do you mean if she tells you she hates you to keep you from something she's doing? I mean, if my best friend told me that she hated me, I would be a bit confused. I would have to find out if she really meant what she said, because after five years, even that's overkill for someone just wanting to use someone else. If there turned out to be a reason she said it, then I would get to the bottom of it, even if she was involved in something bad. If it turned out that she was serious, and actually did hate me since we first met then that would be really awful, and I would wonder why she put up with me for so long.