Which dere type are you attracted to? either in 2D or 3D. It doesn't have to remain within the conventional five either.
Here's a list of several different dere types.

http://www.ranker.com/list/list-of-d...nna-lindwasser

Personally I'd lean more towards shundere or mayadere. I can't help but feel for those who are misunderstood (whether it be out of fear or refusal to accept the unchangeable.)