which is more painful???

[aishe7chrome]

i just wanna know which is more painful

is it when your bestfriend tells in front of you " i hate you since first"
or "i dont need you since we met"

o_____0 ???

[benito18]

hmmm...I hate you since first is more painful because you thought that he/she likes you but in the end he/she confess that hates you at first.

[DarkDenizen]

"I hate you since first"
its more painful because he/she was a plastic....
He/she pretended that he/she had good vibes in you....

[Revelix]

I don't need you since we met...
i would feel that i was just a person that you could play around with and throw away when it doesn't fit you.

[aishe7chrome]

I don't need you since we met...
i would feel that i was just a person that you could play around with and throw away when it doesn't fit you.

hmmmm this quote makes my heart cries u_____u

[rhevil96]

i don't need you since we meet, . . . . . ,


, . . . . ,it just really hurts hearing such words, . . . . . ., from the person you love,

[aishe7chrome]

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

[DarkDenizen]

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

Nope, and I will never try it ^w^

[aishe7chrome]

Nope, and I will never try it ^w^

oniisan deni =) see first my first quote

[error345]

i just wanna know which is more painful

is it when your bestfriend tells in front of you " i hate you since first"
or "i dont need you since we met"

o_____0 ???

i will add some quiry in this thread have you ever try this situation in your whole life??

-add your question to the thread start post because i doubt everyone will scroll down to see that.

Well both of those are equally hurtful to me once i care about this person. It's obvious the person is hurt and is trying to hurt you, because he/she wouldn't have been your best friend is that were true from the start. Find out whats wrong and fix it before it's too late.

[DarkDenizen]

okay ^w^

[aishe7chrome]

okay ^w^

wooopsie sue me massen deni i didnt notice your first quote xD sorry sorry oniisan thanks for the quote ^___^

[DarkDenizen]

its ok Imouto-chan ^w^

[KiriHime]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

[aishe7chrome]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be condole??

[aishe7chrome]

That's a good question.

I mean, on one end, you go on believing that someone likes you when in actuality they hate you.

On the other, you find out that you're pretty much worthless to them.

I would have to go with the first one. I mean if they've hated you from the beginning, then there was a reason that they acted nice to you. They could've wanted something from you, or saw you as someone that could be manipulated easily. Then you're left wondering if everything you went through was a lie, and it just goes on from there. To me, being told you're not needed is better than finding out the friendship you experienced was all a lie. At least with the former, you know that there are other people that would need you.

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be involve by something bad??

[KiriHime]

what if you and your bestfriend stayed together for 5 years.. and suddenly he/she told to you that.. is it a lie to you? is it in purpose? or is it he/she have a problem that he/she dont like you to be involve by something bad??

Do you mean if she tells you she hates you to keep you from something she's doing? I mean, if my best friend told me that she hated me, I would be a bit confused. I would have to find out if she really meant what she said, because after five years, even that's overkill for someone just wanting to use someone else. If there turned out to be a reason she said it, then I would get to the bottom of it, even if she was involved in something bad. If it turned out that she was serious, and actually did hate me since we first met then that would be really awful, and I would wonder why she put up with me for so long.

[eriel529]

i would say i hate you since first is more painful 'cuz you thought that person liked you and them it turns out she/he doesn't

[Death Master]

"i don't need you since we met" For me this one is hurtful but the those two choices are both hurtful.
Example: Before he/she told that to me/you is that me/you did anything for your best friend and me/you loved doing those things, helping him/her. And after all you did your gonna hear it from him/her that "i don't need you since we met". It's painful really... But for the first choice it will just make me snap out of chaos. Grrrrr!!!

[diambangan15]

Hello

I think we're going to analyze it first........your bestfriend can't do that you it's because how did he/she became your bestfriend in the first place if he/she doesn't need you since you met and hated you since first.

As days pass, he/she can't throw directly away the moments both of you shared together such as laughing together, doing crazy and weird stuffs together, secrets you shared and tears you both shared and many more.

But there's also a possibility that he/she wants to be your bestfriend it's because of his/her insecurity or in other words, he/she just became your bestfriend because maybe only you could bring the last percentage of his/her low sel-esteem up.

But if you feel a little confused about my comment, I chose ''I hate you since we met'', it's because he/she used you for better or for worse and it can also mean that he/she despise you so much.

(I'm so sorry if I just directly give my comment without the consultants of others. DeathMaster just recently told me it's okay to freely give your comment but just don't hate the thread. I just gave diretly away my comment it's because it is an interesting thread. I'm really really sorry again)