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Give me advices please...

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SugarKetch
on 06-05-2012 at 05:51 AM (174 Views)
Have you ever been in love? What are the biggest possibilities when you are in that state of falling for someone? How will you show him or her your feelings for them?

I have a question to ask, and I need some advices from you guys.
You see, there's this guy, whom I'm very in love with. I've admired him for his kindness, thoughtfulness and understanding side, but after hearing and knowing especially from him that he's engaged on a Mexican lady, GOD, it felt like my world ripped and ashed apart. I couldn't say not even a little word, but only my expression of sadness. Right after his flight for US, I still didn't let go of my feelings for him, though I know, I'm gonna hurt more and more as time goes by.

So, what do you think, Am I a fool for still being in love with him, or Am I just blind, for not seeing that he loves somebody else?
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  1. AraMichaelis's Avatar
    AraMichaelis - 06-05-2012 08:15 AM
    Are you really sure you are in love with him? Confirm your feelings. It might just be an infatuation.

    Personally, I can say I've been in love for someone. For almost 2 long years and I've stayed quiet- I'm glad I did. Well, those things aren't really something I focus on. But dear, I don't recommend confessing things, esp. to guys. I'm a little feminist when it comes to romance so I think it would be better if it's the guy who confesses. But it's clearly up to you.

    I think there's nobody foolish in love (gaaaayy). It's just that there are things that wouldn't go your way. Everybody will fail and it's normal.

    Just don't get sad about it. It's something teens would always experience but then being all depressed about it would make you look desperate. Enjoy youth and don't focus your attention on these things. That's all I could say.
  2. Hotaru's Avatar
    Hotaru - 06-07-2012 09:43 PM
    Like AraMichaelis said, are you really in love with him or infatuated? Not that I don't think teens can't be in love with someone but... look, you should be glad that all this happened, you should be glad that you know what a stinking dog he turned out to be. Hmph, going out with a young girl and being engaged all the while, URG!!! These are the days when you should be living life, loving life, not becoming depressed by some lying loser. These things hurt and most likely you'll hurt for a awhile yet, but think about, aren't you in a better place now, knowing what you know, not to mention his poor unsuspecting, soon-to-be wife. It'll hurt but you're better off.
  3. azukare's Avatar
    azukare - 06-08-2012 09:42 AM
    your not inlove , thats for sure :) better not to be inlove to a guy whose inlove to someone (mexican lady)