Why did I do this? Also: Questions.
byon 10-30-2011 at 09:26 PM (346 Views)
I got motivated to write this blog by musikalles. I probably would not have written this, as I am simply not that type of guy, but the heck, why not! And I need some opinions anyway, so this should be perfect.
So, today I had a date with someone, and a fairly peculiar date at that.
Not because of how it went (well, that as well, but what ever.), but because I had barely talked to her
in school before, but sometimes I just get that feeling that I will get along with a certain really well so I thought "Why not, what can I lose?" and just asked her out into the city for a coffee and a walk or something. (Very unusual for me, took a while to gather courage as well).
So far, so good. We met up at 3pm and while it went fairly bad in the beginning (due to not knowing each other that well) it got better and better while we went through a nice park to the local river, watching the sun go down, talking about everything in the world.
Now, the questions arise when it comes to the next part, while I took her to the bus stop. My memory of this conversation is kinda blurry (which I could slap myself for right now), maybe because it was kinda hasty. Just your normal Goodbye.
Me: "Well then, come home safely!"
Her: "Yeah I will, I had a nice time today! =)"
Me: "Yes, me too! How about meeting up again next weekend or something"
(that's when I kinda stopped listening the rest is not granted to be the real words)
Her: "Meh, next Weekend is bad for me/I don't know/something like that
Me: "Or maybe even something throughout the week." (we got holidays right now)
Her: " [Can't remember] I'd like to stay in touch anyway/something along these lines"
Now, looking over it again that definitely seems to be more on the refusal site of things, but talk about sending ambiguous signals!
Some compliments and everything in between, let alone no single word of "I might need to go soon" or something like that, within three and an half hour (then I panicked because it was sunday and I didn't know if the bus would still be driving), and a, in my opinion very nice conversation actually don't really add up to that conclusion.
So, what's your take on this guys? I will probably have to ask her anyway, but having a few opinions is never bad.