Love Triangles

[ShazunaChan]

ok here is the question

-there are 3 girls that love you to death but dont wanta share you of course one of the girls is a childhood friend, the other one is a girl from your class/cute/funny/smart, and the last girl is a girl like you but lil more tone down to earth type

- You Realize that there serious about you to the MAX but your not the type that can brake there hearts like that but if you let it continue like this it'll get worse

-how would you tell them w/o hurting to badly ?

yea im kinda stuck on this one so i was looking for help from you guys

[chancesz]

shuffle ^^

btw if you cant make up your mind its bound to hurt the 3 and you. its better to tell them if you cant choose between the 3. if not your an [censored].

most likely you will go for the girl you actually like.

[ShazunaChan]

the thing is you like all 3 kinda for the fact you dont wanta hurt them in the way ur confusing urself

[Njaaks]

If you dont choose anyone out of the 3

Childhood friend- Id tell her that you see her as a friend and sadly not more( classic one i think)

Glassmate- You can always tell her that youi dont date ppl from the same class ( that you like her but you think it wouldn be a good idea)

Girl like you- maybe that you are not looking for a relationship atm or smth like that ( this one is the hardest)

[skywalk3r]

Hmm, I think I saw it from somewhere.

Here's my answer dude. You have to choose. If they accept the fact that you chose someone, they'll understand.

[ShazunaChan]

are you sure they would ? it might turn into the anime school days 0.0

[avich]

Ichigo 100%...

If you can't decide then you are not truly in love with them I guess. BUT you still need to respect their feelings and tell them what you feel towards them properly.

If you really want to choose then you have to choose quickly and stick to that. If you drag your decision to long it will be very unfair for the girls and they will end up looking for someone else (you will end up regretting and wondering about it whole your life...or not)

Bottom line, we can't really tell you what to do, only you know that =p

[AchronycalChaos]

Avich is right - if you can't decide, it's a possibility that you don't love them enough to really want one of them.

Otherwise, it seems like it would be a clear choice. Two of them may be daisies, but one would be the rose.

So, I'd say get yourself out of the situation by denying them all if you absolutely cannot choose one. And, if you think one of them has definite potential but can't decide yet, ask for more time to think. Girls do that all the time (at least, I did). :p

Just don't keep them waiting for more than 4-5 days at most. I know I'd go nuts if a guy tried to hold me off for that long with the excuse,"I need more time," and I'd definitely think that he was just trying to give me a hint to go away.

[ShazunaChan]

thats is true , u have to pick and stick w/ ur feelings but everyone how hard that is 2 do when you like all 3 but only can love one

[langging]

i guess you should tell that you prefer to be their friends if you really dont like any of them...

[Sora Kasugano]

Kinda reminds me of Shuffle and Ichigo 100%,

I'm not really sure, since I'm not that expert in terms of love relationships. but hey, If you truly love them, you should pick the one who you love the most, cause for me. you dont like them cause you cant choose between the three

[LordNight]

what kind of eroge is that?
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kidding
what avich said was right, its imposible for you not to hurt them but you can take it to a minimal level if you choose your words right
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anyways, if you want some date for the upcoming xmas eve
go with the osananajimi arc[childhood friend] arc =D
[^--since you and her know each other more and you can relax just by being with her]
though maybe your the type who loves to laugh then go to the classmate arc
sorry, i hate yandere arcs..~.~

[icsenen002]

Choose what your heart wants and the rest you go with Njaaks post

but if its me ill make them a schedule it could go weekly or monthly and every sunday is a rest day or alone day xDDD



If you dont choose anyone out of the 3

Childhood friend- Id tell her that you see her as a friend and sadly not more( classic one i think)

Glassmate- You can always tell her that youi dont date ppl from the same class ( that you like her but you think it wouldn be a good idea)

Girl like you- maybe that you are not looking for a relationship atm or smth like that ( this one is the hardest)

[globeopinion]

no matter who you choose, there is always be one or two left behind... it's just say it to them that you don't want to break your friendship but you do care for them as friends... and think hard who you choose.. i believe that you don't want to hurt them and as much as possible talk to them kindly...

[Carole]

you have to decide.
if you like your childhood friend, go tell her.
if you like your classmate, don't be afraid dating your classmate dude :P
there is nothing impossible when it comes to love ~
and the other one? you know what to do.
you're the only one who can solve your problems. if you can't then screw you! :D

[alt143]

Go for who your heart likes. :) I think that's the best solution. Choose only one. LOL. You're right, it'll get worse. They'll be more hurt. And when the time comes that they will know about that, a possibility that you will lose them all is really high. If you don't want that to happen, go for the right one now. If you do not want to hurt them, do it. Even if you have to break up with them. It's better.

[Viletomb2010]

There is no way that you cannot hurt the feeling of that girl when you borke their hearts even if you say it at a right time and in the right place. If I will be in your foot I will pick the third choice since you stated that you love her.

[Sora Kasugano]

It is still impossible for you to fall in love, you know why? Cause you can only choose and love one, and that one is supposed to be the most special. You must reconsider your feelings first, and that also means that time is needed, manage your feelings, and find out who you really love just by being with them :3

[kyoyahostluv]

You care about them all aparently because you dont want to hurt them.
But the question is...which one are you afraid to hurt the most?