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Tkdvince
04-07-2011, 02:45 AM
I have a childhood friend name Hanah
both of us like each other but
i dont know if we have a same
feelings i like here not only a friend
i like him coz i love him..
but i am scared to tell to him that my feelings
of him is not like that time i Love him,,
Hope you can Give me a idea how to tell him
by the way i try to give him a note of his locker but he trow it away coz he doesn't
know know that note is mine coz i tell here don't speak to stranger people!!!
:donwan:
Bunislipper
04-07-2011, 03:15 AM
mmm why dont you just tell them face to face? :/ There is no harm in it the only thing you have to consider is that it could ruin your friendship because if they dont feel the same way back then there is a risk of your friendship bein destroyed but if your good enough friends Im sure you will be okay :)
Good luck!! xx
deathcherry
04-07-2011, 04:01 AM
yes yes I agree with Buni, but you'll have to consider the consequences after confessing to him though and be prepared for that...
GOOD LUCK :3
SoulTaku
04-07-2011, 06:07 AM
but not telling the dude doesn't make things better... well for me I think...
wait am I the only dude here?
Sora Kasugano
04-07-2011, 06:17 AM
ever heard of TRIAL-and-ERROR?
Why not give it a shot? For sure, I know your not ready yet. Your Feelings is still confused. If You truly love him, you already confessed to him your feelings long ago.
SoulTaku
04-07-2011, 06:47 AM
well... if you are confused then why not try to think about your feelings again(I'm not really good at these kinds of things)... and also it's not like he's the only guy in this world...
L Lawliet
04-07-2011, 07:37 AM
try.. showing him that you love him in other ways...
he will not notice that you are showing your love for him cause us boys are slow
when it comes to love..
then.... after a week of a long time of showing him you love him..
confess what you feel for him..
at first he will not understand it.
give him some time to realize the past..
then.. he will follow you or.. say that he loves you too...
always give space..
CloverLeaf
04-07-2011, 08:03 AM
First off, I want to ask if that "Hanah" is a boy or a girl. Yes, you used the pronoun "he" and "him" but the name sounds so feminine. And I looked at your profile, About Me tab, your interests. No offense. I just want to know so I can give an appropriate advice.
Snoozy19
04-07-2011, 08:29 AM
You should try and restating what your situation is because when I was reading it I sorta got confused a bit if this 'Hanah' is a dude or dudette.
A simple note in the locker will not always turn out good (like in your case) since it can be from an anonymous person. You can try working your way up by giving subtle hints of you interest for him/her. Due to your close relationship, a straight forward approach might not be be way to go since awkwardness of the outcome might be a little too much for you to handle.
Reivacks
04-07-2011, 08:36 AM
Well you know what they say... the TRUTH will set you FREE.
Hidekiyuki
04-07-2011, 04:20 PM
Im a guy,... so I can tell the one of my opinions how a guy would like a girl (as in like equals LOVE)
First major reason, a girl must be presentable, maybe you need to show him your cutest side and your most beautiful, gorgeous side. Use your appeal to magnet him.
Second major reason, a girl must be caring and not boring. You need to show him that you care for everything he does, show your concern and stuff. Don't be so dramatic, thats kinda boring, make him laugh and HAPPY all the time but when in times the moon is telling you to tell something, spit it out so you can have a heart to heart talk with him... and hell know you more so hell like you more the way you are.
Those 2 things are the MOST important to guys... but the way you confessed is so wrong... it must be the GUYS who should confess first but try this...
...Confess to him by singing a song (a cover)... or composing a song that explains your feelings. I have a few suggestion songs...(these songs are in the perspective of guys so just change the lyrics :) )
Indie songs
-Simple Enough by NeverShoutNever (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAIeZdFS2sU)
-Humming Bird by Nevershoutnever (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FToDIdtYzQM)
-I love you more than you'll ever know (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y55sLy4hUY0)
If you don't like indie try
-Into Your Arms by The Maine (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKf2lECazMs)
-Miserably Loving you by Artist vs Poet (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e1g_fd3-xLw)
or just find your own =))
...Give him a gift then put a letter there...
... or tell him personally...
JUST BE YOURSELF and GIVE HIM A MOTIVATION TO LIKE YOU :)
:bringitout:
I hoped that helped :)
KhenLee202
04-30-2011, 05:25 AM
confused!!! hannah? him?
well, just tell her or him what you feel
if he or she said "no"
just accept
you cant have everything you pleased
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