Challenges-Hardships

[Keinan]

What has been the most difficult thing that you have had to overcome in your life so far?

How did you handle it, and what helped you to pull through?


It's OK to answer these questions now, even if you're currently going through this kind of thing at the moment. Maybe some kind words of encouragement or advice from others who have gone through hard times will help you get through yours.

[tambulance]

Being adopted and losing a bestfriend, adoptive dad, brother, biological dad, grandma, grandpa, stepdad in that order all within 9 years.

I think my best friend was the hardest. I was very close to her. closer than most of my family. I cant say for sure but we had talked about spending our lives together. So there was always that possibility that haunted me. Also being adopted was hard on me. Just knowing was hard. Also I found out years later that I had a brother I never met.

I basically made myself realize that I cant hang onto the past ... if I constantly look behind me how can I look infront of me to see where I am going? So slowly and surely I began to look ahead in life and learn to enjoy it instead of regretting my past.

yep this wasn't easy to post lol. But part of the whole looking forward thing i guess lol

If you feel the need to comment or ask questions feel free. I wont hesitate in answering them

aww I hope my reply wasn't to serious for this thread lol. lets paaaartaaay!

[Keinan]

tambulance, there's no trouble talking about depressing things. There are plenty of threads essentially devoid of any depth for people who don't want to participate to run to. xD

Thanks for sharing that even though it was difficult for you, I appreciate it. Hopefully some more people will post on the thread, and I'll write about my experiences later as well.

[Snoozy19]

- Haordships -
When I was still a kid I had tons of horrors but one of them were definitely getting a needle shot from the doctor.
I'm laughing right now by just remembering the times I cried like a baby when I received a shot. I couldn't explain the fear I had everytime I see one of those surgical needles. Just the thought of some stranger poking you with a friggin sharp needle to inject something gives me the chills. I know that its medicine and stuff but the pain is never the thing that I could overcome.
With my current age, I still hate those things. Thats why I avoid getting serious illnesses.

I think that if I were to get a shot right now, I'd probably be resisting or flinching alot.

Okay now, to answer the questions:
(1) How did you handle it?
As a kid, I cry to ease the pain and as an adult... I cry a 'little' to ease the pain.

(2) What helped you to pull through?
Nothing, I'm still having a hard time facing this thing.

[trooper]

hmmmmm,,, Difficult things huh?? ohh!! there was a Time When My Father Got to prison.. Others.. talk about what happen.. and They keep Asking me the same question.. Then.. I risk being question again soo I Skipp School.. >.< For Day or soo.. Then When my Father arrived.. i was soo Happy And When i got to school They Stopped!! :))

[evilwil]

The mos difficult times was when I was in 1st year college 1st sem. We had our departmental exams!...Our departmental exams on ACCOUNTING was always set on sundays! so on Saturday I ddnt know that we were gonna have the exams at 11:00am. It was bec i went home early!....As we all know first years are good boys!but then I was not able to do the test!...darn it!.....

[kyou01]

ummm well
my parents are always fighting... EVERYDAY
they want to divorce














and all I can do is just to sit there and watch O___O

[Paperroses]

Realizing that i was obsessed with someone rather than being in love with them.
I only "cared for her" because i wanted her all to myself.
It was like she was all i cared about.

How'd i deal with it?
i subconsciously forgot about the whole thing.
but i'm trying to face it nao, so it's all good.

I was so disgusted with myself, i was emotionally puking my guts out for days.
yeah, it still bothers me a little, but we should all look ahead in life.

[Kobowo]

A similar thread already exists. Please use that thread instead.
http://otaku-streamers.com/community/showthread.php?1822-What-is-the-greatest-challenge-you-have-faced

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