Confused >.<

[Carole]

hey guys, is it really awkward to date someone in school which is just your classmate? because im really inlove with HER (we're in the same class, and we're 4th yrs, one year to go) and i need a piece of advice, here it goes:

"is it okay if i try to date her? even though we're just in the same room? isn't it awkward?"

i need a lil piece of advice guys :(
because some says it's a bit NOT mutual. but i find more nice to take at.

[alt143]

it's not awkward. that's normal you know. i'm 4th year too. and my classmates experience those kind of things. just try to tell her what you feel, then explain. if she allows you, then do your best to prove yourself and to make her fall for you. if not, i guess you just need to wait. :) we can fall inlove with any person. if you're in the same class or not, it's okay. as long as you truly love her. there's nothing awkward. :) that's my opinion.

[xuei0000]

I really don't have any experience when it comes to BFGF relationship or even dating.. I really avoid those stuffs right now..

BUT if I were to ask.. it is okay if you try to date her even if you are just in the same room.. ACTUALLY, WHEN I was still in HS.. my friends are having some BFGF relationship even if they are just classmates.. and they even have their dates inside the classroom~!! AND they're always having this PDA thing.. SO I guess, it is really OK~!! (AS far as I remember their are at least 3 pairs in the classroom~!!)

BUT NOTICE:

Other says that if you have one in the same classroom you would get tired of seeing her everyday!? IDK if it's true..

HOPE I've given you some piece of HINT.. ^___^

[Viletomb2010]

I am not good in love problems but I can help you with this one. It is not awkward to date her even if she is your classmate. It is just a common thing to do if you want to tell your feelings to her. Go for it and I hope you will succeed.

[Snoozy19]

I say that you should go for it dude.
Like you said, you only have a year left before graduation so its better to act as soon as possible.

I don't see the awkwardness in your situation though. like some of the posters previously that sort of thing happens all the time in High School.
Even my friends fall in love with chicks in their class so seeing it as awkward is plain nonsense if you ask me...lol

too fell in that same issue dozens of time when I was still in HS but I was waaaay to timid to act so in the end I simply shrugged off that thought of mind leaving me not a whole lot of regret....hahahah

[Sora Kasugano]

I'm not interested in Love Problems now,

But I've been there. its not awkward, its pretty normal. I'm on my 3rd Year of High School too. Love develops, so its pretty common to let her know what you feel about her.

[lolkaitlin]

I'm guessing you don't do rotary classes? :|

Yeah, to be honest, I'd feel weird if I dated someone in the same class, let alone school, as me. I wouldn't be able to stand seeing my boyfriend all the time. It makes me lose the flame. But that's just me on long-term relationships.

To be honest, it's different for everyone. I'm a fourth year as well (you... DO mean high school, right? ahaha) and well... I don't know, I'm more focused on school this year. I guess a different take on this would be, "Well, if you're serious about school AND your boyfriend attends the same high school... isn't that killing two birds with one stone?" I don't know. I just wouldn't be able to stand seeing my boyfriend EVERYDAY for 7 hours. :|

[Carole]

gee. thanks guys :]
those advices really helps a lot. i think the juice is worth the squeeze.
i appreciate this much.

[Liesianthes]

50-50 on me in that situation...

in my 3rd year HS, i courted a girl..my classmate but she rejected me because for the reason that she is my classmate...

back on the topic...
it's good because you will always see her, be with her (inspiration)... you can support her in studies, help in project.. and if you are smart in the class.. it's a plus point...
it's bad for the reason if you're overdoing it meaning.. you've always looking at her/him makes you become distracted in your lesson and cannot listen to your teacher... and if you are scold by your teacher.. it's kinda embarrassing to her... so much..

it depends on you and your classmate.. if she wants a relationship between classmates at the same room/section...

[request1100]

I think there's nothing wrong with...with classmates loving each other. I was in the same situation as yours two years ago...but still I got my girl...you just need time, it's always in the balance of things...as long as you love her...

...but you could get embarrassed 'cause they(your classmates) will be talking about you two, or even annoying you...
(remembering past experiences)
:touched:

[Carole]

yeah maybe :)
but i think it's up to the two lovers to handle their relationship right?
i think i got the answer. :)

[Kobowo]

it shouldnt be awkward...its actually more common in the highschool I used to attend to...besides if you two like each other there shouldnt be anything awkward about it :3

[kraken414]

for me, its not awkward to date her.. being a classmate can also be an advantage for you against rivals (if you have rivals and except if your rivals are your classmates too). this way, you can be closer to her, helping in assignments and such.. go for it! :)

[JenOtaku]

`A lot of people say that! But It depends on you.

`For me it't not awkward you know. You'll just get embarrassed but not feel awkward.
`Try dating her and see what will happen and what will you feel. :)

[kamizaki]

Well its not.. it depends on you though.

in my situation, my past girlfriend is one of my classmate now.
and we haven't see each other after 4 years. but we talk now
and becoming friends again. if i have the chance i want to make
our relation work again.

[Aviansjeff]

oh thats a very nice case.,,☺☺☺ ok heres my advice if u really2x love that girl go fight for ur love nothing to worry since u love her why not jst give ur best dude do ur best shot.,,be a man now ur 4th year even though they said that 4th year a taking some puppy specially those who dnt tried it atleast at ones.,,☺☺☺ so do ur moves make a good thing in her become one of her close friends and let her friends be your friends also so that in the times came by that ur ready to propose or what u have already her friends guidance or should i say friends vote for you to love and take good friend of their friend.,,☺☺☺ go for it dude we know that you`ll gonna make it.,,☺☺☺ never surrender and lose hope in that case.,,☺☺☺ GOOD LUCK.,,☺☺☺

[shinku]

I think its just normal... its not really that awkward
my boyfriend is also my classmate and we just started dating last month.... but there is nothing to feel awkward :p
you'll just feel a little bit embarrassed because people around you might tease you XD

[KarmaOnce]

All I can say is: Go for it. It seems normal to me! ^_^

[blackXgurl]

hmm .,. for me its ok just do what ever you want as long you love her ,. !

[rakusa]

well i prefer that my bf would be on the other class..,

but in your case, hmm., i think it's alright, as long as you don't attend your class for seeing her only.
instead STUDY and LOVE :)

[JenOtaku]

`Don't feel its awkward, its just normal. If you love her then tell her, she might love you too, ya know! :))

[jeiru01]

Awkward? That is a good chance actually. You can talk to that person anytime you want plus you'll know the person better. I had crushes in my class before and I knew them better because of that. But sometimes, It doesn't feel good to be in the same class as that girl. Why? Because your crush will see your negative traits and characteristics lol. But That means you get to know each other well. And it's actually normal for that to happen, so don't feel odd about it.

In Class:
Teacher: This is the blah blah blah.
You: Looks at her
Girl: Looks at you
*blush*

Oh and Good luck for your graduation day.

[KhenLee202]

its not awkward
you can humiliate yourself in a million of people if you truly love her

[exTeen13]

Most of the replies here is "not awkward" but for me it would be awkward. I'm not being negative here but what if she doesn't like you back? Or if you really became a couple but ended in breaking up before you graduate? It would be pretty awkward between you two and your classmates might get affected by it too. Anyways, just think about the pros and cons of whatever decision you came up with. :3