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ZenNaari
07-30-2010, 02:29 PM
Have you ever felt guilty for watching too much anime, reading too much manga or even for playing too much games? For any reason?

I'm sure all of us would think that if we had the freedom to do these things, we would gladly do so especially without any nagging or disruptions.

However, since I don't have the freedom to do so... And sometimes even when I do... I feel guilty for watching anime... Thus making me just glare at the computer screen without doing anything, wasting my time... But that's the quality time with my computer at least, no programs open even.

I mean, I feel guilty. I mean, somewhere in my head, a voice says, "You could be doing more resourceful things than this." Even when I think that anime is the best and most resourceful thing...

How about you? Do you feel guilty, for any reason at all?

Rasen Oh
07-30-2010, 03:39 PM
I totally understand. Everyone around me shuns watching anime and playing video games already, but its the worst when you finish a long anime series or realize that you've played a game for 20+ hours. You realize that you've wasted so much time doing essentially nothing and that time can no longer be made up for.

Whatever, I try not to think to hard...

ire
07-30-2010, 06:47 PM
I felt guilty, tons of times already. But apparently, temptation wins all the time.
I still watch anime even though I'm better off without it.
I've posted something like this before.
I'm not yet dependent on anime so I could stop but it was definitely my choice not to stop even when I have to.
However what I feel guilty about, most of the time at least, is that because of anime I'm not that close to my family anymore.
They have tried to understand me but that failed.
I've tried to help them understand me, but that also failed.
So in the end, I've willingly chosen to bury myself in the animes that I watch which in turn left the gap to large to bridge.

Heart
07-31-2010, 12:17 AM
I don't see anime as something unhealthy, I mean it stimulates the imagination and all that, and if I wasn't watching anime, all I'd do with the time I would have spent watching would be sitting around in an empty room, so it's better than being bored.

lastshin
07-31-2010, 12:39 AM
not really, its because I have nothing else left to enjoy myself. when go out all I do is go look for animes
and when I'm on a date if my partner is not an otaku, it really turns to be a bad idea

Snoozy19
07-31-2010, 02:40 AM
I'm feeling guilt right now.
I'm suppose to be preparing for college stuff but here I am in the OS forums.
Things might get out of hand if I continue to slack off by watching anime all day.

mlcdl
07-31-2010, 03:03 AM
I might say that I once felt the guilt of being an otaku but I didn't think of it anymore.
This is what I think...The negative effect should be ignored when it comes to my current life cause it was more better for me as of now.

utauchan
07-31-2010, 03:27 AM
when i watch anime to pause from doing much work and relax, then i feel guilty guilty since i will be doing more productive things than just watching...otherwise, on my free time i see no reason to feel guilty about it...^^

takasuryuuji
07-31-2010, 03:42 AM
yeah me too...
I felt guilty for watching anime...
but this is me, this is how I want to be... so be it...
this is the only way I can relax my mind...

Darth EJ
07-31-2010, 04:37 AM
1. we should be happy watching anime rather than bad-taste hollywood films... so don't feel guilty.
2. if there is something to be guilty about, it is playing videogames. I sold my Nintendo DSi coz it is more disruptive than five anime episodes.
Sell your game consoles and have the money instead!
3. one hour of anime in a day is better than 6hours of anime every three days in a week (that is 6 times 3). limit watching to a maximum of 7hours in a week and lose that guilt.

enjoy watching!

IndI311
07-31-2010, 05:51 AM
ohh..
..this should be a taboo thopic..
..but yea..
...sometimes i get to hear this voice, too...
....it's saying something like: "you could work on you home work instead watching this"..
.....or "why don't you get something to eat before you starving to death"..
......but then I think "NO, because anime is just way better then all this"..
....ohh, but I'm feeling most guilty at my work place..
.....when i'm watching anime for over 2-3 houres and the person next to me has nothing to do..
......every time I realize this I've just finish the ep. I'm watching and thats like living hell..
.......seeing the peron next to me bored to death whil I'm watching anime..
.....makes me feel realy realy BAD~..
...
.

Balmung
07-31-2010, 04:51 PM
I really don't feel guilty cause i have alot of time on my hands. So i spend it watching anime or playing video games.

qwertyuiop10
07-31-2010, 09:58 PM
Dont worry me too...

its 1 week before my college entrance test but
i cant concentrate on my review because of the updates!

aw
i wish i can pass!

Vidact
08-01-2010, 03:04 AM
I never feel guilty about playing games or watching anime, and I do it for around 10-12 hours a day. Haha, I love it.

batmer
08-01-2010, 04:17 AM
i think watching anime is just for stress reliever but also sometimes it can be a good time to spend too..

kyoyahostluv
09-16-2010, 03:47 PM
I used to be completely obsessed with manga/anime.

Im better now...

freestyle99
09-16-2010, 09:04 PM
a piece of sound advice for everyone... just watch when you feel like it.
we all love anime with a passion right. so let us have the freedom of doing so. as long as we don't neglect our responsibilities in the real world, then everything's milk and honey.
so don't feel guilty about it. even if you do, that's why it's called a guilty pleasure.

RogueArch
09-17-2010, 01:12 AM
Sometimes i feel guilty that i don't listen or pay more attention to hearing japanese. I figured that if i payed attention in every episode i should be freaking fluent in japanese!

markbelats
09-17-2010, 10:00 AM
I only feel guilty when I Choose anime than my responsibilities
it really annoys me when i need to to something but anime sometimes lures me in..

0petz253
09-17-2010, 11:52 AM
i don't feel guilty as i enjoy the things i do

Mei14
09-17-2010, 12:05 PM
I guess I feel a bit guilty from time to time, but my mom's here to stop me from going over the limits XD (Though it is annoying to hear her shout at me for staying on the computer for hours...)

Torrid
09-17-2010, 12:15 PM
I definitely felt pretty guilty back when I was playing games all the time. Its fun, but hardly productive at all.

Mcp2303
09-17-2010, 01:04 PM
I felt guilty when playing Games..
Because it's much better than to watch anime than playing PS2...
ARGHHHHHH.....GRRRRRR......
So i felt guilty in Playing games rather than watching anime....

eliemusica
09-17-2010, 01:43 PM
a lot. cause at one point, i just ignored all things that happened around me, family, friends, school, those who concerns about me, literally like abandoning life and just keep paying those cable internet company so that my internet won't be cut down just so that i can watch anime and read manga...and lolz, i don't that anymore.thanks for all the support~ (^^)7

lolkaitlin
09-17-2010, 07:14 PM
All the time! I spend as much free time as I can watching anime. It's kind of bad, I find.. I mean, I could be out either joy riding with one friend or out wreaking havoc with another but NO - I've decided to stay home and watch anime.

I mean.. it DOES keep me out of trouble and whatnot and it DOES stimulate my imagination and tickles my writer's hand. But.. you know.. at 16, I find I should be roaming society and doing something more productive than this.

mrcdeath
09-17-2010, 07:24 PM
Hmm can't say i feel guilty, as i'm not that much into anime to abandon everything else, and as long as i enjoy watching them i dont see why i should feel that way. It's a choice we make i dont see why we should feel guilty about it. If u dont like it than do something else it's at easy as that.

ciaossu
09-17-2010, 07:58 PM
This happens to me a lot... Ever since I got into anime, I've been somewhat lazy to do school works like assignments, projects, blah blah... and of course I feel guilty because my parents are sending me to school to study and yet, you know, -_-zZzZ I just laze around

GatohCorpz
09-20-2010, 06:21 AM
Yeah well not most of the time, but sometimes when I'm supposed to be doing something else that actually serves a purpose and I find myself watching anime, I do feel quite guilty afterwards.

awnaman123
09-20-2010, 06:50 AM
man! I don't feel guilty nor sorry at all ...

Anime makes my mind feel so refresh but sometimes it confuses me because of some twists on the anime ...

well that's okay ... That's part of an anime to be a good and challenging anime ...

It's even better than playing games especially those online ones ... because It's just a waste of money buying cards in order to buy a nice item ETC ...

well anime is not worth paying for it's free ...

THANKS TO THOSE PRODUCERS ...

even when I have some stuff to do lyk homework/s, project/s ... Instead, I'm prioritizing watching anime than those ..

and I'm not regretting it .... I can still manage my studies ...

that's how loyal I am to anime ...

Bear w/ me ... :)

luthorkhy77
09-20-2010, 07:41 AM
Man, now I'm feeling even more guilty. But there is no helping it, my mind still dictates me to watch more anime. xD

sana07
09-20-2010, 01:13 PM
i feel guilt whenever i have tons of things to do... but ends doing nothing but watching anime.. :|

awnaman123
09-25-2010, 06:03 AM
I think you can balance ur tym ..

watching anime and doing some other stuff ...

but really there are tyms when we feel guilty coz we prioritized watching anime

than doing other stuff that is more important ... @_@

I had tried that one already but I didn't feel guilty at all ... ( dunno the reason )

maybe I just know on how to utilize my tym ...

and thought to myself ... " I can do this. "

OPTIMISM ...

LordBugan
09-25-2010, 06:08 AM
yeah even i ....I don't know the reason why i just can't stop i feel so guilty when i can't play my DMC...*out of topic ..GOME*
But I think its ok sometimes to be so sobered about it

lance21
09-25-2010, 06:08 AM
I FEEL GUILTY!!! now i get to wear glasses cause my eyes are blurry(been playing for hours everyday w/o rest )

qwertyuiop10
09-25-2010, 06:10 AM
been guilty even though i know what will happened next

we have happiness....

MioAkiyama
09-25-2010, 10:51 PM
somewhere to the answer of yes
cause im my family and i are separating ways or more like

having great distance to each other when wwere so close
well i dont mind :)

venabre
09-26-2010, 01:36 AM
on vacation I can perfectly spend 18 hours in front of a computer before I get kicked out of it, but now that I have classes to attend and lots of works and projects to be done I feel I could be doing something else appart from watching anime, even if it is the one or two episodes per week I'm able to watch right now

luthorkhy77
09-26-2010, 11:02 AM
somewhere to the answer of yes
cause im my family and i are separating ways or more like

having great distance to each other when wwere so close
well i dont mind :)

Same here. My parent are both away, but for some reasons, i feel really guilty. I can't even imagine what i am doing. lol

musikalles
09-26-2010, 09:07 PM
This site helps me procrastinate. And then I wait around reloading the pages just in case something changes or updates since I've seen it last. That's definitely something I feel a pang of guilt over. But I still waste time anyway.

triniman15
09-26-2010, 09:10 PM
I don't feel guilt at all, because I'm a Otaku

Viletomb2010
09-27-2010, 08:42 AM
I am guilty too even my mom told me to study im watching animes or playing my ds.

Drache
10-09-2010, 07:00 AM
occasionally. mainly when i did watched anime and stuff when normally I wouldn't :p

Kobowo
10-09-2010, 01:49 PM
I dont feel guilty but a part of me is saying I should do my hw right now though XD but I still dont feel guilty

zeroichi
12-06-2010, 01:10 AM
i do feel guilty while watching anime.....
anime makes me become lazy..
sometime i didnt help doing the house chores because of anime. n thats wat make me feel guilty -_-

Sora Kasugano
12-06-2010, 01:21 AM
I also feel guilty right now, I already promised myself never to skip again, but I always did, and I'm supposed to prepare for exams and test this 3rd Grading, but here I am, stuck in OS and Skipping classes ~

whyouask
01-02-2011, 02:59 AM
Not really hehe, i enjoy it on a daily basis!

coldground93
01-02-2011, 05:15 PM
I feel guilty sometimes:
If I hadn't played all night, watched anime all night or read manga all night. I would have passed/aced my quiz. then I look at the updates at OS.

me: Oh a new episode of the anime i'm watching. *clicks* *forgets all about guilt and regret from earlier*

crimson21
01-31-2011, 07:24 PM
I am not guilty.. Because i am doing my responsibilities too.. not always watching animes or reading mangas.

zer0virus
02-01-2011, 02:35 AM
I get guilty when I do watch to the extremes like from 8am to 5am next day straight...LoL

Ephenyan
02-01-2011, 06:04 AM
guilt, eh? Why... yes I am feeling guilty.
know why? Because I could have achieved more in academics if only I had more control
in my love of my hobbies (yes, it includes anime and manga)

parents could have been more proud.
I could have taken care of myself more.

BUT MEH. All is done and there's nothing I can do about it now.
I can only focus onto zee FUTUREEEE <333

skittles16
02-01-2011, 06:11 AM
Never.
I'd feel guilty only if I knew for sure I wouldn't have anime, games and such with me in the future.
To be honest, if I don't go into a career involving anime or games I doubt I'll be happy.

blackXgurl
02-01-2011, 07:05 AM
hmm ., yup feel guilty some times, but i cant resist the anime temptation ,

LuNic
06-11-2011, 08:05 AM
I dont feel guilty... I have no regrets doing the things I love.

gemzki
07-16-2011, 10:19 AM
Nah,im not guilty at all

atually im grateful im watching anime

Mike234
09-05-2011, 05:08 PM
there's no such thing as "too much anime" ^^

midnytchaste
01-20-2012, 12:28 AM
I once felt guilty but no one can resist in temptation especially anime..,XD

benito18
01-20-2012, 01:06 AM
nope I didn't feel guilty because that what it means to be an OTAKU :)

GMSieghart
01-20-2012, 01:14 AM
well somehow i feel that way! though i dont think it so seriously ! :D!

kimono031
01-20-2012, 01:47 AM
At first I don't feel guilty. I usually think it was a well spent x amount of hours watching or playing. However, it is usually right after this thought that I notice it is around 2 in the morning, and not a shred of work has been done. That's when the remorse kicks in and I realize I need to get my priorities in order .___.

Siegzzz
01-20-2012, 03:17 AM
I love watching anime, and I'm addicted to games.... whenever I used to much time for watching an anime or playing games, then i realized I have no time for homework that's when i feel guilty XD XD

ranmachua
01-20-2012, 09:11 AM
Never. I always felt good & refreshed watching anime!

DacKeith
01-20-2012, 04:27 PM
I do sometimes felt this! I feel this like when I am in the middle or finishing the game or anime then I suddenly realizes that nothing significant will happen to my life even if I finish the game unless I get fame or money or something good!

Reizero
01-20-2012, 05:58 PM
whaaat of course not. if anything, i feel guilty for not playing as many games as i did before and for not watching enough anime or reading enough manga. but if i do these for too long in one day, then i feel guilty for getting stuck inside the house being forever alone and not hanging out with people and yeah now i'm just rambling. i feel guilty right now since i've been on the computer for two hours without getting any studying done, and i have finals next week.

veris19
02-06-2012, 05:03 AM
Sometimes. Cause I'm being to lazy to do my responsibilities like doing household choirs and assignments. But I still love it no one can stop me watching an anime <3

[anne000]
02-06-2012, 05:22 AM
Yup... Most of the time
I sometimes hide when I watch anime...
But I also follow my parents because I
know they know what's best for me...

DarkDenizen
02-08-2012, 04:40 AM
I don't feel guilty because Anime is my Life!!!
I feel guilty when I can't finish the game in time and when I didn't bought the game in its release....

MarilouParu
03-14-2012, 05:35 PM
i guess i felt kinda guilty when, in the middle of the exams, i was watching anime instead of studying... :P but i guess i wouldnt call myself an otaku if i didnt watch it lol... also some times when i just sit in front of my laptop all day long watching anime, instead of going out :D

aznkido92
03-17-2012, 09:49 PM
i dont feel guilty
since im doing good and it helps calm me down most of the time :)

flamepan
03-18-2012, 06:14 AM
i usually dont feel guilty about doing it. i mean i know i could be doing something that would benefit me more most of the time but i just am not interested in w/e it is enough usually to actually care to do so, so i just say meh and keep messing around. but i will say i do feel guilty sometimes when im told i should do work but i do this instead even though the work is retarded and i still get it done later.

prettiiangel
03-18-2012, 07:32 AM
Nooooo. . .Never in my life I felt guilty watching anime. . It's true that I'm addicted to it but I always put it in right time. . .XD

daily
03-18-2012, 07:51 AM
personally I never felt guilty or some sort of feeling when watching anime, rather anime put me at ease from my trouble and anime made me laugh when i felt down.:phew:

But since i entered University the guilty feeling start haunting me such as "Why do I spent my monthly expenses for paying internet service":indotz:

haha living on small apartment alone teach you how hard to keep living when what you do is only for self satisfaction:=D:

castlella
03-21-2012, 11:25 AM
yes definetely!

i am such an otaku who wouldnt mind readin a manga the night before an exam =_='

many a times i even got scolded for this............ for me it is a blessing and also a curse :/

nenmaster
03-22-2012, 09:39 PM
I do always try to hide it from those around me that I watch anime. I feel like it really isn't that social accepted. However I do not feel that it is a waste of time. I think that there can always be something learned from anything and that includes anime too. Also I think it is very important to have some way in which you can relieve your stress, and for me anime is the best option.

kyube08
03-22-2012, 10:52 PM
Sometimes (i think..) I wasted a lot of time ever since I stopped schooling. I just watch anime all days and always procrastinating.
I think when I go back to school again, I should lessen my time on watching too much anime. It doesn't do any good effect about my life instead I get even more lazier.

Cheap Impact
03-25-2012, 12:25 AM
Sometimes I feel guilty watching anime when the idea that I need more financial resources to cope up with my otaku needs suddenly struck my mind... but most of the time, not guilty watching, rather happier when watching them... :=D:

rsckim
03-25-2012, 12:43 AM
I gave up 10+ year long habits on drugs, alcohol, cigarettes and coffee i may just have replaced all these with anime but i don't feel guilty it is the one vice i have left if you can call it that and i enjoy and i'm 32 now i'll probably be an Otaku for life and its ok. I think as long as you do the important things for your life first you can afford to have some time for distraction and fun which is what this is for me.

Shinrai
03-28-2012, 11:20 AM
Sometimes. I forget to do stuff that are of priority whenever I start watching anime specially when the scene gets more exciting. I can't even get to sleep sometimes just to see it's ending. :o

orangeblo0dz
03-28-2012, 06:07 PM
I do feel guilty, because once I start, I can't just seem to stop! Next thing you know I'm behind in all of my chores and homework..zzz