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meylii
02-12-2010, 04:00 PM
why do i felt angry or something i don`t understand when someone making flirt with others?:emh25: can you help me?

ZenNaari
02-12-2010, 04:14 PM
judging by your UN, it seems that you are a girl. Simply, you're jealous. Watch some Harem anime and you'll understand.

darkpoetry
02-12-2010, 05:13 PM
judging by your UN, it seems that you are a girl. Simply, you're jealous. Watch some Harem anime and you'll understand.

lol! I don't know if you can really learn about human relations by watching an anime. That seems dangerous to me :emhh07:

hokeymon
02-12-2010, 05:36 PM
To me flirts are just people being plastic so that's why I hate them too. They usually break up in about 2 months cause they can't handle lying to themselves :)

jeiru01
02-12-2010, 06:24 PM
I also hate flirts they don't know when to stop flirting unless someone says.
Just ignore the flirt. Unless, that person is already flirting to your loved one. If that
happens talk to her in a nice way. (some flirts starts a fight when told that they are
flirting). and if that person is really getting in your nerves, talk to her.

jadeliciousdk
02-13-2010, 10:21 AM
Dangerous but strangely fun :P

It could be a blast to prepare for a date by only reading shoujo manga and taken inspiration from them xD

@meylii
Jealousy is perfectly normal and if you are without a boy/girlfriend then seeing others hitting it off, flirting etc. is going to remind you of what you haven't got but probaly really want.

lemonsquare
02-16-2010, 09:35 AM
Yes it's Dangerous! :) but actually fun. haha.

@meylii: hmm. i think this is based on a true-to-life story.. haha. :) Just don't get mad over something like that. Ignore them.. :) hmmm. why you ask you getting mad? I don't know really, but then... I think you don't like people who act like very sweet and caring even though you know that they really aren't like that. haha..

nannel24
02-16-2010, 10:27 AM
I am sometimes like that too.. I can't stand seeing flirts messing up with others, specially with my crush..But for me, I don't have the right to get angry just because flirts keep flirting, specially when I don't own someone who they are flirting with. But if it happens that she steps on your toes, that's when you have to react. For now, I suggest, you hold it in. Anyways, FLIRTS will always be FLIRTS.

Soujiro Ken
02-22-2010, 09:45 AM
hmmmm.. personally I hate to see people flirting with others too, especially in public..
the answer may be you just see those dudes as immoral beings, like me!! XD
or maybe ZenNaari is right, you might be feeling jealousy.. XD

Kurtherror
02-22-2010, 10:21 AM
try asking help from guidance counselors.
but I think jealousy is normal however being angry over it is something else

mlcdl
02-22-2010, 10:27 AM
try asking help from guidance counselors.
but I think jealousy is normal however being angry over it is something else


Hahahaha guess that I agree that jelousy would be normal and being angry means for a reason

purplegurl
02-22-2010, 11:35 AM
I think it's a normal feeling to become angry when someone flirts with another...I personally think it's not right to flirt with any cute or good-looking guy or girl you see,,that would just mean you're not contented and you don't have any standards for a partner...you only base it for personal interest or looks

Sora Kasugano
12-15-2010, 10:28 PM
jealousy ?

cause you if you're jealous, then you must be a girl right? hmmmm, best suggestions, watch Harem Shows then maybe you'll understand Human Relation xD

xuei0000
12-16-2010, 03:40 AM
YEAH~!! I felt that way too.. BUT I am not really jealousy. I just felt that it is not appropriate for them to do it in public.. very nuisance~!! AND maybe it's because I came from a Christian school that I am practiced with some kind of VALUES~!! XDDD

lalainedeux
12-16-2010, 03:46 AM
Err, I think I encounter anger when I saw someone flirting with another person too and I think its pretty natural but I don't mind that much. Sorry that's all I can say right now.

Viletomb2010
12-16-2010, 04:54 AM
You can learn love relationships in harem and reverse harem? lol. I agree it would be dangerous to learn from it since it is like nothing will happen bad.

Just do not mind it when someone is flirting around with someone else but I do not like persons that are flirting in front of a huge crowd it is just disgusting.

Snoozy19
12-16-2010, 07:09 AM
Most people are not able to filter out flirts since they CAN be extremely annoying.
Flirts are mostly the ones that start rumors and eventually results in gossip. I can understand why that bothering you so much, though watching a harem genre anime isn't one thing that I'd suggest but instead find a way to control your stress on the matter.

I have clue if you feel jealous or not about flirts but seeing that you can't tolerate them I'm thinking that you should try ignoring them for a while and see how that turns out. Those things don't really tend to last because everyone is always finding new ways to socialize without actual confrontation (ex: Facebook).

Sora Kasugano
12-16-2010, 09:04 AM
It is natural to be jealous with some one Flirting right in front of you,

And the most of the infected ones are probably the girls, who gets jealous easily and always tolerates them. You should learn to ignore something like that sometimes xD

byotch07
05-31-2011, 10:52 AM
does anyone of you hate me in sb because i flirted with someone.? just him actually..

FrostHeart07
05-31-2011, 10:55 AM
Maybe you see flirting as a wrong thing to do in the public lol.

ismiss
05-31-2011, 11:02 PM
im glad someone came up with this thread. wooah.. i hate flirts. they even do it on shoutbox for everyone to see and read. urgghh. >:0

DwinLylthx
06-01-2011, 12:18 AM
Yeah, I hate it too. I just ignore them. -.-" But when its too much and they're on a public place. I'm like "Ewwww~~" XD. Hmmm, Jealousy? Maybe not or Maybe yes. XD I dunno. I just also hate them~ I do Flirt sometimes. To my close ones~ Just teasing. Yeah~

Carole
06-01-2011, 06:18 AM
@darkpoetry i totally agree with you. watching anime doesn't really help that a lot.
@topic try to control yourself and understand it thoroughly. you'll become strong that way.

Naruhina101
06-01-2011, 06:33 AM
maybe you're just jealous ^_^

trooper
06-06-2011, 05:41 PM
Why is It That my Friend Choose another person the ticket for the show.. ~_~

newbie97
06-07-2011, 06:37 AM
i think you're jealous since i sometimes feel that way
sometimes when i see someone flirt it makes me think "go flirt where no one can see you since you're annoying" or something haha
but most of the time i think it's too much of a bother so i say to myself "thank god i don't do that kind of things since i got something better to do" haha

Shoutbux
06-07-2011, 07:42 AM
why do i felt angry or something i don`t understand when someone making flirt with others?:emh25: can you help me?

Maybe cause you want it to be you...cause normally your blood dont boil when the person flirting with and the person flirted are not related to you(in terms of blood relationship, friends etc.)

But if my 1st statement is not the cause...probably its because you grew up on a conservative family.

evilwil
06-09-2011, 06:26 AM
you feel angry because you want to!......try not thinking bad things about those thoughts and you might feel at ease for a lil bit!

error345
11-10-2011, 05:22 PM
that's some poor english there lol, i think this thread must also be dead but i'll still reply, you feel angry when others flirt because you are jealous mostly, or have other problems and is just taking it out on everyone around you, so you get mad at them for no reason, humans are not hard to understand if you pay close attention, they always try to hide what they really mean, body language is always more accurate than spoken words..

animefreak11
11-13-2011, 09:57 AM
a flirt will be a flirt
you'll eventually lose to a flirt
hmmm i think nothing for flirts..just nothing
well maybe thinking nothing for them will ease your anger?

yurinino
11-13-2011, 10:08 AM
I hate someone flirting in public..maybe yeah jealous or something ^^

0drea7
11-14-2011, 10:06 PM
well coz being a girl make you feel ashamed to see another girl flirting with a guy in public... well it's like she's (the one flirting) making the girls look easy to be doing that move... it is irritating to see... i think everyone feels that way not coz of jealousy but coz of the "morals" of the girls is at stake...

DarkDenizen
02-16-2012, 02:04 AM
I hate flirts...wew
I sometimes see people flirting in the SB...
for me just ignore them

muddz
02-17-2012, 12:03 PM
@meylii, I think you'll soon grow out of that feeling. It'll pass.
Don't let it get to you (Easy on the mouth but hard to do).

Nothing'll break you, only if you allow it.

Hotaru
04-03-2012, 10:36 PM
it seems you might be jealous....how cute