what will u do?

[muira]

actually, i want to ask your opinion.
what will you do, if u have a friend, who's so hypocrite, annoying, irritating, and have an unpredictable behaviour?
well, i have a friend like that.
she's my room mate, classmate, etc.
im soOooo can't stand with it.
i always talked to my other friends about her because it seems that they also don't like her and can't stand with her.
but you know what, only us; me and my other two friends; know her real 'character' because she's always with us.
we are the only closest friends she have.
if you had a fight with her or if someone asked you why you seems like not close with her, so you'll tell that you have a little problem with her, that person will blame you.
because that person don't know at all what the problem is.
she really act innocent and the way she dress,look,walk, talk, to the others seem like she's a very good, innocent, obedient girl. :56:
i can't stand with it anymore. :17:
everyday, i prefer to be quite rather than talk to her.
day by day, she's getting everyone annoyed with her attitude.
and everyday, it's a must to talk about her because there will be something that she did or do, that made us so unsatisfied and mad with her. :mad:

have anyone of you here experienced the same as i am? :33:

[Zepharintes]

hmmm talk to her ^_^
tell her why does she act that way?

maybe she has a "problem" that you dont know or undrstand.....


^_^

[ko86]

It's her diet....tell her to watch her diet...it's making her cranky and eccentric...you need a balanced diet and some exercise for a healthy lifestyle...

P.S Nipaa~

[Bindu1000]

Hey - simply, sit her down and talk to her and tell her the things she is doing that is annoying and tell her you dont want a hypocrite as a friend. Ask her if she has any problems and if she does you will be more than willing to listen and help to the best of her abilities.
If that doesnt make a difference, then be polite, but ignore her and tell her straight to her face why
Dont talk behind her back to the others
Finally ... I agree with KO - maybe there is something lacking in her diet ... hahaha

[scasia]

yes, I have and she is one of my closest friends. At first I found her annoying, irritating, but at last I found her nice to me.
what you must do :

accept her
talk to her
if she has trouble, try to find a solution for her

I think what happen to her is that she has a private problem, although it will be hard, just keep trying! ^^

[avich]

Live your life with this motto. Be kinder than necessary 'cause everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

[Zepharintes]

yes, I have and she is one of my closest friends. At first I found her annoying, irritating, but at last I found her nice to me.
what you must do :

accept her
talk to her
if she has trouble, try to find a solution for her

I think what happen to her is that she has a private problem, although it will be hard, just keep trying! ^^

i think im ryt... that what i have said earlier ^_^

[gaziuz123]

Be frank to her... but dont tell her some hurtfull words,
tell her, in a less painfull way.

tell her what you dont like about her..

and talk...

=3

[russj]

sometimes, everything is just shallow. maybe she just likes attention. i know a jerk who doesnt

have any problem but is like that. in case she is like that, ignore her.. isolate her.. she'll change

EDIT: i hope.. things doesnt always go your way.. thats life..

[muira]

agagaga!
Ko, it's not about diets!
u are filling craps in here. LOL.
well, she have a balanced diet. she loves to eat.
most of her money spend on food.
till have no enough money for her accessories
sometimes she likes to borrow to others and make it as it's hers.

at first, i really2 want to talk to her.
i really want to discuss it with her.
i just that i don't have the strength to do so.
if u look at her face, u'll have the same problem as i am.
im not chit-chatting about it at first.
just that sometimes i don't want to bother it but my friends keep talking bout it made me want to talk bout it too.
i think it's one way to release my tense.


btw, why should people tell her what her wrong doings?
she should realize that herself.
she should use her brain wisely.
why so many people mad at her.
she made mistakes to everyone that close to her.
not just me.
we sometimes made some 'weird faces' to tell her that we are irritated and annoyed with her.
but still, she just don't understand.


she so stingy! in every-single-thing!!

[SquishyNinja]

You have been friends for a long time, right?
In that case, it may be harder to confront her about her problems. She is now used to acting this way, and if you approach the problem the wrong way she may feel like you, a very close friend, are betraying her. These problems should be confronted like how alcoholics get confronted: an intervention. Get all of your other friends who see this problem, sit her down, and talk. Make sure to agree that it is a friendly gesture, meaning no cussing out, yelling, etc.

I help my friends all the time, which is why I'm so good at it now. Unfortunately, I'm basing this on only what you have told us. I don't know the girl personally, so this is about as detailed as I can get. If I've guessed wrong, please tell me.

[holyzac]

Come on now, everyone has their flaws if you don't want to be her friend then don't, if you still want to be her friend then be her friend, simple ^^

[muira]

Kick her behind!! Lol

LOL. i wish i can. but u know, she is sick now.
it's something like tyroid?
so can't kick her. haha.

agaga. i think things are getting even worse.
i don't want to befriend with her.
but we are sympathy to her,
well, as to me.
i can't avoid it.
she's my room mate and even my classmate
i don't know how i want to tell her that i don't want to be friend with her.
don't u think it's too overwhelming?
huhu~

well squishy, we've been friends almost a year.
not a long time. hahaha.
we don't want to confront her.
we just want her to think by herself!
she also always get jealous when my pointer is higher than hers.
she just can't get along with me.
urgh, impossible~

[russj]

lol.. wait.. so she's not really your friend.. your just roomies..

if you dont like her then she's not your friend.. therefore ignore her

i know most of the ppl here will tell you to talk things through

coz its the "right" way.. well... dont do what you think is right.. do whats necessary

of course thats just me

[ko86]

Mui, I still think it's her diet...
She's getting too much testosterones from her unbalanced diet...
Recommend her a funny anime...

P.S Uguu~

[skywalk3r]

I'm not an optimistic person, but keep your cool sis. Maybe you can find some of her good points. That is, if you agree.

[muira]

roomates and also classmates. we always together although sometimes i don't want it.
everybody who knows her want to run away when degree.
they all don't want to become her roomates.
so, now i do really did what necessary.
i don't talk much. u just act.

talking about boyfriend, u know what, she likes to judge other people's boyfriend like,
'hey ur boyfriend has a big nose', 'ur boyfriend looked ugly', 'ur boyfriend looked like an old man although he just 21'.
what the hell on earth is this kind of girl btw?
she's much worst than aliens.


Mui, I still think it's her diet...
She's getting too much testosterones from her unbalanced diet...
Recommend her a funny anime...

P.S Uguu~

ahahaha. silly. are u too obsess with diet Ko?
haha. she don't like anime.
she don't like to download anything in her laptop.
if she want to download something, she'll try on other people's pc first.
scared so much of viruses.
bOOOOOhisss!!!!

[SquishyNinja]

well squishy, we've been friends almost a year.
not a long time. hahaha.
we don't want to confront her.
we just want her to think by herself!
she also always get jealous when my pointer is higher than hers.
she just can't get along with me.
urgh, impossible~

I know these kind of people.
There's no way in hell that she'll admit that she's got that problem. These kind of people are so stubborn. The only thing you can do is tell her and hope that she'll see what she's doing wrong and change her ways. If that doesn't work, cut off the friendship.

[KaiserDragon]

It sounds to me as though she is just useing you, she sounds like the sort of person who doesnt give a damn about other people's feelings, if this is the case the best thing you can do is just tell her flat out that you dont like hanging around with her the way she is and that if she doesnt change her ways then she will end up with no friends at all.

She will get angry when you tell her this but if there is any hope for this girl she will learn to change, although even if she does change id find it doubtful that she will want to remain you friend any longer but thats most likely for the best.

[digi0009]

u are rite, such people are irritating, they really irritate me to, maybe u just have to still acceot her the way she is <_< , u really can't do anything else bout it ^^

[muira]

most of u guys here asked me to talk to her.
well, i don't think i will do that.
or maybe one day.
nah! don't know.
i still have my limits.
it just that she haven't reach my limits.
huhu.
i don't want to break any relationship cuz i scared someone else will do the same thing to me in the future.
i just bear in mind that, this is world.
different people with different behavior, attitude, likeness and etc~
but there'll be one day, she'll figure it out herself.
hopefully God will lead her through the right path.
she's so religious btw.
but she act differently.
mybe it's her style.
hahaha.
may God bless her~

thanks guys.
this really help.
u can still give opinion.
maybe slightly or completely different from the rest.
haha.
have a beautiful day~!

[solidoxygen]

if you don't feel like talking to her directly, you still have to drop a few hints

people like her see themselves as perfectly normal

if you point her in the right direction, she'll keep blindly bumping into walls

[little mouse]

I don't think you can really complain at all. You have a problem with someone but you refuse to tell them because you want them to figure it out by themselves. It's difficult to view yourself through others eyes, I bet very few people really asses their own behavior and personality like that.

It's clear you don't want a friendship with this person, and I'm sure she doesn't want one with you if you hate her so much and talk about her behind her back. It's not like your doing her a favor by being a false friend.

It's difficult that you live with her but you can always move out with your other friends. You have 3 options; 1) Talk to her about it, try and make her understand she's upsetting people in a NICE manner and resolve your issue that way, 2) Move out, remove her from your life, 3) Deal with it and don't show your darker side by resorting to talking behind her back and general nasty behavior

[muira]

if you don't feel like talking to her directly, you still have to drop a few hints

people like her see themselves as perfectly normal

if you point her in the right direction, she'll keep blindly bumping into walls

i already give her hints.
she still don't get it.

when i first be her friend, i told her what i don't like if she had done something wrong.
but still, she still doing the same thing till today.
what's the point of telling her again and again?
i hate it when i have to repeat it twice.
it means that a person never give their full attention to u.
i won't move to other rooms.
cuz that shows, im losing.
she knows that.
we've been like fighting 'inside'.
she also knows that i don't like her all the time.
*she told one of my friends*
she said, im the one who don't understand her.
it seems like she don't understand people around her.
not just me who always get annoyed with her.
one of my friends, always cry of what she have done.
im not going to face with her and fight.
cuz i know, im good at fighting. haha.
i don't want to create enemy here.
hope u understand little mouse.
u think i like being here and talk bout it?
mybe u don't understand cuz u are not at my position.
anyone can tell me that.
it's easy to say, but not to do.

*raise up ur hand if u guys agree with me* huhuhu~~

[BloodThirst]

actually, i want to ask your opinion.
what will you do, if u have a friend, who's so hypocrite, annoying, irritating, and have an unpredictable behaviour?
well, i have a friend like that.
she's my room mate, classmate, etc.
im soOooo can't stand with it.
i always talked to my other friends about her because it seems that they also don't like her and can't stand with her.
but you know what, only us; me and my other two friends; know her real 'character' because she's always with us.
we are the only closest friends she have.
if you had a fight with her or if someone asked you why you seems like not close with her, so you'll tell that you have a little problem with her, that person will blame you.
because that person don't know at all what the problem is.
she really act innocent and the way she dress,look,walk, talk, to the others seem like she's a very good, innocent, obedient girl. :56:
i can't stand with it anymore. :17:
everyday, i prefer to be quite rather than talk to her.
day by day, she's getting everyone annoyed with her attitude.
and everyday, it's a must to talk about her because there will be something that she did or do, that made us so unsatisfied and mad with her. :mad:

have anyone of you here experienced the same as i am? :33:


I am! My classmate is like that... all of my classmates hate her for her attitude including me...but i pity her though, so i just let her stick around with me...

[Cho Hakkai]

actually, i want to ask your opinion.
what will you do, if u have a friend, who's so hypocrite, annoying, irritating , and have an unpredictable behaviour?
well, i have a friend like that.
she's my room mate, classmate, etc.
im soOooo can't stand with it.
i always talked to my other friends about her because it seems that they also don't like her and can't stand with her.
but you know what, only us; me and my other two friends; know her real 'character' because she's always with us.
we are the only closest friends she have.
if you had a fight with her or if someone asked you why you seems like not close with her, so you'll tell that you have a little problem with her, that person will blame you.
because that person don't know at all what the problem is.
she really act innocent and the way she dress,look,walk, talk, to the others seem like she's a very good, innocent, obedient girl.
i can't stand with it anymore.
everyday, i prefer to be quite rather than talk to her.
day by day, she's getting everyone annoyed with her attitude.
and everyday, it's a must to talk about her because there will be something that she did or do, that made us so unsatisfied and mad with her. :mad:

have anyone of you here experienced the same as i am? :33:



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[hokeymon]

Well you can't really change a person because that's who she is. Is she really your friend? Cause the more you talk about her the more I think she's not your friend or something. I think you're better off without her. Don't stick too close with people like that. It's only bad influence and you'd get drag on by her own behavior and destruction.

[muira]

it's true that we can never change a person's behavior.
i didnt plan at all to change her.
not a bit.
nah! i don't think she's my friend.
friends won't do that.
i think if i break the friendship with her, there's no need to feel bad about it.
right?
im going to ++ my sin if the more i talk about her.
she just not worth it!

[man]

why not act like her and see if she gets anoyed might be fun

[muira]

why not act like her and see if she gets anoyed might be fun

aww.. that would make me just the same as her.
means we don't have any different if i do the same thing like she did to us.
funny. i don't have the guts to do that. hahaha~

[Skoibi]

yeah I think the best thing to do is just be honest with her. sit her down and be like, hey. you do these things, and its stressful to all of us, and like offer to listen if she has problems or something, and if you can help, great, if not, you were there to listen, and she may have an attitude adjustment just knowing that someone cares enough to ask. :)

[Njaaks]

It really easy to say that you should talk to her, but we here cant feel the things you feel when you want to talk to her, but still i have had similar exp. in my life and there are 2 things to do if you dont want to talk to her about this problem directly:

1. (thats what i did) is to avoid that person and try to get her out of your life( but you cant since the roomate thing etc. And i think thats deffenetly not the right thing to do :D)x
2.Start giving her some broad hints that her behaviour is not accapteble.


I really hope that you can solve this situation
best wishes

[lemonsquare]

Talk to her.. It's the right thing to do...

If she don't want to talk, be frank with her and tell her all your problems with her.. If she knew what is your problem with her, she will be conscious to herself and will clean up her act to you and to your friends.

She's a Wolf in a Sheep's Clothing. hehehe.. Eventually the Truth about her hypocrite personality will be revealed. If that happens, it's your decision if you want to be friends with her again or break it off..

XD

[ShadowsLiyte]

id do what my dads friend did. if he ever gets drunk, load a shotgun with blanks filled with ketchup (blanks still make the noise but have no pellets, and with the ketchup itd just look like blood was flying evrywhere) bust down the door and shoot him. when my dads friend did it it scared the sh*t out of him xD

[mlcdl]

Hahahahahahahaha I just have the same problem as you do.....................
Anyway......I just done pretty simple but take me alot of time......
Quite simple.....I just try to understand that annoying one........I just done cause I know that other or mostly of my classmate thought me of annoying......

[jeiru01]

a girl like that should change..

you should all talk to her, one by one so that she will never feel embarassed.
you should all tell her or else.. YOU WILL ALL SUFFER!

I remember having a classmate like that when I was in the 5th grade..
but, when she gave me love letters, I had the chance to tell her how
annoying she was, after that, she changed bit by bit. and became nicer.
well she was still in the 5th grade by then. I wonder if that girl will change.

she will change If you'll ignore her. (I think). she won't learn unless
she'll suffer. BOAHAHAHA!

[kkm]

[nannel24]

if she's like that..I think she has problems..I once had a friend like that..but after some bonding with her..she turns out to be nice..maybe her parents don't give her much attention at home so she wants to be noticed..just talk to her..then everything will be fine..guide her so she can change..

[russj]

wth this thread is ancient.... stop posting here already

[wookiee]

Well if you asked me I would probably make a big fight !! Then everybody will tell me that I am mean and all that crap , and I won't give a damn . I will later on ignore her ( because we fought ) and I would feel good about myself .
But that is what I will do .

[Kazeno Kazuha]

lol...try to talk.....then you know what to dom

[Soujiro Ken]

a good and open conversation is always the best medium to understand somebody.. XD

[p4pex33]

well it's up to you if you still want to befriend him/her ... if you want to be his friend (Accept him/her).. if not IGNORE him/her


LOL just hit her....
no question
hahahahahahahahah

hahahaha... hit her in the head.... ahhaahah... it's nice to be mean sometimes

[AnkokuRyuu]

in situation like this you tell the person right away, because it you don't then you just give them the impression that nothings wrong with the way they act

[egreyes]

..... No problems will be resolved if you don't talk about it!! .....

[jhai0603]

Yea, I've known people like that.
I'm probably one of them.
The best way to deal with this kind of people is to kill them.
Strangle them until they're practically lifeless.

Na, just kidding.
You may want to talk to him/her seriously.
Just spill out your emotions.
And if she doesn't even give a damn, consider my earlier suggestion. >:)
Na, just kidding again.

Maybe you just accept her for what she/he is, and hope for the best.
Who knows? Maybe that kind of personality has some 'hidden' quality of some sort.

[blackmenthol]

There must be something troubling her
that's why she "acts" like that...
a problem that can't be resolved just by talking
and being with her.


Maybe all you can do now
or the only thing you can do now(if this IS the case)
is just PRAY for her.
Or just get her to open up to you...:))

[qwertyuiop10]

whahaha...

i dont have experience...

but if she's youre friend you should prank her...

nothing will change if she still do it...

all some of youre classmate knows his/her true attitude right...

they will understand what you did

[Bunislipper]

Talk to her about how it bothers you and try to make her explain why she actually acts like that but try not to hurt her feelings cause girls are VERYYYY sensitive hai I know I am :3

[tuyenbchu]

hmm,.. i know some people with those attitudes.. haha self-centered, hypocrite, brat, name it all you like.. But first, i have a question, do you know her background? i bet you don't.. :) mostly, people with those kind of attitudes have family problems. Her parents might not give much attention to her. it's one way of upbringing a person to be. it should start at home! but sometimes that's the missing piece of life.. parents focused on their jobs to give their family the best things in the world and forget the bond and unity of a family.. sad to say but it's true. :(

If she's aware of her bad manners, then she's a B**** she wants to be an apple in the eyes of many... teehee just kidding.
Seriously, if she's aware or not, as you, her roommate and a friend (in some ways you are) you want her to change.. right? Try to get closer to her. i know it's not that easy.. but you can do it.. nothing will lose if you try again (and again, if you must).. she's human and she won't bite. :D go for her weakest link.. try to start talking about family..ask some of those matters.. who knows, that will be the start,.. and maybe later you found out, you see the other side of her.. :D
have a heart to heart talk and no worries what will you ask after that.. both of your emotions will just lead you to your conversation.. Good Luck! AjA! ^_^

[bgurlforu]

personally she may be annoying, irriating and be unpredicatable.. but hey arent we all like that sometimes and even if she is like that most time you should accept the way she is and not find solutions to fix her. if thats how she is and she likes herself that way you need to accept that. if you truely want to be friends with her accept it and tell her she can sometimes be annoying.. be truthful but dont go and be mean to the poor girl.. maybe she has problems and even if you have a hard time telling her the truth one day you might blow up and hurt her feelings wityhout meaning to so best to get it ova with while your in a good mood.. true friends tell eachother the truth no matter what. My best friend is annoying, irriating and very unpredictable but i love him anyways.. he irritates me and he is a constant annoyance but i would do anything for him.. and im always truthful to him.. though i tend to be harsh with him i know he understands and love me too. He is a great person even if he is a bit of a punk lol

[tuyenbchu]

I help my friends all the time, which is why I'm so good at it now. Unfortunately, I'm basing this on only what you have told us. I don't know the girl personally, so this is about as detailed as I can get. If I've guessed wrong, please tell me.


Men are different than women's personality. we should try different approach, and besides, she is not drunk.. :D i hope that answers your question? hehe For me, as a woman, i would prefer you will talk in private, not in front of those people who accused her as who she is.. you don't know her side yet.. :D





agaga. i think things are getting even worse.
i don't want to befriend with her.
but we are sympathy to her,
well, as to me.
i can't avoid it.
she's my room mate and even my classmate
i don't know how i want to tell her that i don't want to be friend with her.
don't u think it's too overwhelming?
huhu~

well squishy, we've been friends almost a year.
not a long time. hahaha.
we don't want to confront her.
we just want her to think by herself!
she also always get jealous when my pointer is higher than hers.
she just can't get along with me.
urgh, impossible~

ohh.. i didn't read this earlier..hehe well,.. i believe in a quote "keep your friends closer and your enemies much closer"
if you don't want to befriend with her then, let's do to the long process... but since your like throwing up and can't eat her manners.. why don't you........ hit her on her head?! that would be great!! haha NO WAY!! please don't do that.. hahaha really, if you can't intervene with a heart to heart talk and can't settle things up.. you must,...... act like her.. :D really,.. it's one way to realize what kind of personality she have.. this happened to me.. LOL it's not that big and i didn't mean it to a friend.. I've said something that offended her.. and she throws it back to me, i realize it kinda hurt.. then she said.. "did you feel it too?" haha shame on me *^_^* luckily it happened on a text message..teehee and i say sorry to her.. then where fine.. hehe it's just that small things.. but leaving small problems can pile up to big ones.. so solve while you still can.. :D

really, I'm serious, act and talk like her.. ONLY to her.. :D

[nickster]

just simply to to him/her ..
and tell him/her the things that you hate most about him/her ..
that's it XD
then things will work out after it XD

[Bunislipper]

Live your life with this motto. Be kinder than necessary 'cause everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

I loved that that was really inspirational but the best part is is that its true.
I'm so sticking to that.
Arigato. XD

[Kobowo]

Nope....but I think I somehow used to be sort of like that...good thing I noticed it myself...I got rid of that part of me now though :D
as for your friend I suggest talking to her and sorting things out...ask her why shes acting that way and if she could stop it...

[missRobin7]

TALK TO HER AND AID HER>...but if theres nothing you can do, and she seems HELPLESS

what i'll do is LEAVE HER ALONE AND MY YOUR OWN BUSINESS, disregarding her..>...
wahahah

[Snoozy19]

I guess you can say that mostly all of my friends back in HS was like that...
They befriend me and act all high and mighty all of the sudden, I mean who in the world gave them permission to act like that in the first place??

When the days when they become so annoying, I start a fight with them... Not a physical fight but mainly arguments of the sort.
Those were the days when I lost many so-called friends, but I am lad that I'm not with them anymore...
I'd rather be with goths than them, in fact I tried being goth but it didn't work out..
Thats why I hang out with mostly quiet types instead of annoying loud mouths with unexceptionable attitudes.

[ciaossu]

I already bumped to at least 2-3 person of that kind in HS. And yes they are annoying, too bad for them I have many mutual friends that can cooperate with me.

Now in college, I just dealt with that kind of person using our so-called teamwork, haha... We just made him get a taste of his own medicine. I and my friends imitated his attitude. We became big-talkers, trash-talkers, and so on. We copied some of his lines. Now he's the one who can't keep up, so naturally he'll avoid us. So just using that technique can easily get rid of unnecessary persons in life.

Although as much as possible I don't like to do this, I like having as many friends as possible because maybe someday, he/she can become your foundation/support in life.

[Viletomb2010]

I have friends like that. You cannot have a perfect life without problems if that happen life would be pointless. There is sometimes a blacksheep in a group. Just live with it and stay calm always. Try talking to her also. Just live life to the fullest.

[lolkaitlin]

One of my best friends is VERY hypocritical, annoying, irritating and has an extremely unpredictable personality! I consider her my best friend still because we've been extremely close friends for 5 years and have been through thick and thin. It's only been recently that she's been a bit off. Shall I tell some stories?

She always says that she doesn't like "high school drama" (and neither do I, completely pointless crap!) buut she's like the eye of the storm. Better yet, she's the entire HURRICANE of drama. Hurricane Drama Queen. Ugh! She likes to start fights with people and piss people off for attention. Oh, and she claims she's independant and is a confrontational gurl. She can't do a single thing by herself/without me and this one day, we got into this HUUUGE fight and my other friend called her to call her out on her wrong and she was like, "Um. I can't deal with this. Bye." Okay. She's irony wrapped in a contradiction. She's a total hypocrite.

But seriously, this makes me a hypocrite giving you this advice: get them out of your life as soon as possible. It rids you of stress and anxiety. If she wasn't constantly buzzing in my ear, I'd probably be 10x happier today than I am right now.

[LordNight]

if she had a problem about dominating the world then better aid her,
or if she just wants your homebaked cream pie better give it to her
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i have a friend like that, (though he's a boy)
lets say that we gotten used to him
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seriously, just get along with her, if you JUST CANT, then throw her on the nearest trash can..=D

[scarlet113]

yeah ive experienced the same as you do
and the only way is to solve it is smack her and cut her leg off >:D

just kidding i just have the same friend as you do except shes an annoying otaku
pisses me off all the time so what i do is just talk to her and try to solve her damn problem
why she acts like that

or if her reasons are stupid id really smack her and cut her leg off
anyway good luck with that you really need it :)

[JenOtaku]

`Hm. If you can't stand her anymore, just be frank to her, tell her the things you hate about her, tell her to get a move on, I have someone I know, she's like that, and I always tell her what's wrong about her, but now, she's gradually changing, and yea, we're good friends. :) just be true to your friend, tell her the things you hate about her, then everything will be fine. :)

[rasendori700]

talk to her personally and tell her what you think of her and try to chance her bit by bit but in a way that will really help her and not to be annoyed with you

[byotch07]

way back at high school. i also have a friend just like your.
what we did is we have an open forum. all you need to do is confront her.
if she wont change or wont understand you. leave her be, maybe she would realized that she has to change ways
in order for her to gain real friends. :)

[Naruhina101]

well yeah.. i do have a friend like that character.. but you say that she is your friend.. well a friend is a friend you must stand what friendship is.. though its hard but... its better to open up that you don't really like her attitudes at all.. well not in a public way but in a private way.. that way she may change her life style.. hope this little advice works..

[kyou01]

just try to talk to her... maybe there's something wrong about her?
I have lots of friends that have the same kind of attitude, I'm just trying to be kind and I always try to understand them....because they don't have too many friends with that attitude and I don't like seeing someone suffering because he/she don't have any friends O_O

[alexso96]

Tell the teacher i cant stand her

[Kid Anime1]

I had the Same problem, A guy so annoying , dumb , and cowardly. He would hang out with us everyday just to act like he has friends, He been using us so that he can act cool. He would take things that is not his. He would throw away his things that his parents gave him and he would say "Because its wet and i don't want to wear it anymore" Think that's not it? Well he try to sell his Girlfriends watch to us ...


yeah ive experienced the same as you do
and the only way is to solve it is smack her and cut her leg off >:D

just kidding i just have the same friend as you do except shes an annoying otaku
pisses me off all the time so what i do is just talk to her and try to solve her damn problem
why she acts like that

or if her reasons are stupid id really smack her and cut her leg off
anyway good luck with that you really need it :)

Ain't that harsh? Ill do the same thing but, Dam Really cut her legs off. I'd prefer to smack her :O

[error345]

Only after reading the thread did i see the date, it's really old for me to be reply lol, but i would stop being friends with her, because i don't need someone like that as a friend. I stop caring know people think a long time ago, if you always worry what others think about you, you can never really be yourself.

[iHoriz0n]

Well, it's obvious that everyday she wear a mask to face everyone, definitely there is a reason, since you are her close friend, i think she would tell you more easily if you could persuade or move her to tell you. Some people have reasons to be hypocritical, maybe their past, maybe their phobia about something, maybe more. But either way, i would not judge her just on that. I would say try influencing her in a positive manner.

[yurinino]

if I'm in your position..well I'd rather talk to her heart to heart than being quiet..you should say what's wrong with her in a calmy way..and ask her what's her problem (like other says)..maybe she prefer to act like that to keep her feelings..anyways you told us that you and your other friends are the only person who knows her well right ? then it means you and your others friends are the only person she can be open with.you should have a long patience (even though I lost mine sometimes hehe) ..

[akira sendo]

i agree to scasia and avich. dnt have to sat much coz scasia already said it. XD

[aishe7chrome]

you should read this:

all over my school im soooo popular...
its because im so jolly,so cheerful, so friendly, i know how to help others, i know how to speak as a leader, im so sweet to others, im good in dancing, in playing table tennis and lawn tennis and what so ever...

but despite of my characteristics not all i see is real. not all i here is real and not all i feel is real.....

one time i have also a classmate like you, she is very insecure with me, she tells something about me that is not true
i want to fight her back.. but i didn't...

i think twice before i act...
i didn't tell to others her own doing....
i just talked to her and asked why is it she's so insecure
she said " because i want to be like you someday a very popular girl, so i want you to put down in our school"
and all i can say is " hey girl, ^__^ being a popular is not putting down a person, just be humble to others and the best character you should have is humility"
she thanked me and smiled
after that.... she changed her attitude


*** sometimes people do a complicated things, because they also have there own reason.......

but if she is sooooo very hyprocrite for you .... ^__^ nahhh just let it be, your not her , right ??

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[PhenixGirl]

Well I normally just put up with them and act like they're irritating or just ignore her.